FEAR TO TRAVEL Even though that I have 25 years and many desire to live, to see world, to know other countries, but, at the same time, gives fear me to travel. When I travel, me estreso easily because I fear to lose the train or the airplane, that robs to me, to be single the result is that I do not travel as much as wanted. Why it happens this to me? Josefa – Asuncio’n – Dear Paraguay Josefa: Often, the things that we wished more are those that we fear more and this seems to be your situation against the trips. The stranger generates uncertainty to us and he gives the sensation us of loss of control. When you project the next trip, it thinks what things you can control and which no.
If you are a foresighted person, you will not arrive behind schedule at the airport nor at the station of trains. This with regards the controlable thing. As far as which it is not possible to be controlled, it creates a space in your mind for the unforeseen circumstance. There are some who in the budget of their trip assign an amount of money to the game of ” imprevistos”. For example, 200 Euros that are sections to support possible robberies or losses.
If it is necessary to use it, there it is the money. If no, they are possible to be dedicated to a special dinner, of return, to be pleased that everything has left very well. And, for unforeseen expenses that are not solved with money, it takes in your next trip music that inspires to you, a book to read, a film to see; in short, additional resources that allow you to enjoy that you like and she does not make centrarte you in the action travel in himself.